FAQ
Questions
Do I need to know what I want to work on before reaching out?
No.
Many people begin without a clear formulation of their difficulty. Orientation can take place together, over time.
Is this therapy only for people in crisis?
No.
This work can be relevant when something feels stuck, muted, or difficult to name…
Do you work with queer, trans, and non-monogamous clients?
Yes.
This practice is queer-affirmative and works with diverse relationship configurations, including poly and non-monogamous constellations.
Do you offer diagnoses or treatment plans?
No.
I do not provide diagnoses or structured treatment plans. The work focuses on relational and experiential understanding rather than categorization.
Is this coaching?
No.
This is therapeutic work, not coaching, skills training, or performance-oriented support.
Do you work with couples and poly relationships?
Yes.
I work with couples, triads, and poly relationships, with attention to relational dynamics rather than assigning individual fault.
Do you work with kinky clients or relationships that include consensual power dynamics?
Yes.
I work with individuals, couples, and poly constellations where intimacy may include kink, BDSM, or consensual power exchange. The focus is not on practices, but on consent, power, safety, shame, and relational dynamics as they are lived and negotiated.
This work is kink-affirming and non-pathologizing.
How often do sessions take place?
Frequency is not fixed.
This is discussed together and can change over time.
Is therapy reimbursed by insurance?
No.
This practice operates outside the Dutch health insurance system. Sessions are not reimbursed by basic insurance.